Dear Family and Friends;
You all fit into one or the other or both of the groups of family or friends. We express our love and appreciation for each of you and for the good influence you are in our lives. None of us have become who we are on our own; we have all been blessed in countless ways by the example, kindnesses, sacrifices, teaching, mentoring, and help of others. First on the list is Heavenly Father and His Only Begotten Son, Jesus Christ. The Father allowed His Son to be born into mortality and suffer more than tongue can express to provide the perfect example and to also provide the atonement and to make possible the resurrection of everyone born into this mortal world. They also have blessed us to live in this last dispensation when we have living prophets and apostles through whom the restoration of all truth has come and continues to come. Next would be our ancestors and parents who accepted the gospel and gave us life and provided for us and nurtured us and helped us to learn and grow and have experiences which have taught us more than we recognize. In addition to these powerful influences for good we have been blessed with brothers, sisters, extended family, friends, neighbors, teachers, church leaders, and people with whom we have been blessed to work. We are so grateful for all of you and the good influence you have been in our lives. We witness to you of the great love Heavenly Father and the Savior has for each of us and of their desire to help us all return to live with them. They will do all they can to help us if we will allow them to do so. How blessed we are to live in this land of America, choice above all other lands, and it will remain free and choice so long as we obey the teachings of Jesus Christ.
We were blessed this week to help get two sister missionaries and two elders moved in to different apartments so they do not have to breathe second hand smoke. When we helped move the sister’s furniture out of the apartment they have been in and load it into a trailer to move it to the new apartment, it made it difficult to breathe. The new apartment is very wonderful and clean; the Spirit will feel far more welcome in these new apartments. We had great help from the missionaries, the Zone Leaders, and the Assistants to the President. After we helped the elders move into their new apartment in Buffalo, we stopped on the way back home to visit with Brother Richard Grapes in North Tonawanda. Brother Grapes is the father of Rick Grapes who worked in the BYU Library with me for a lot of years. Brother Grapes has an interesting conversion to the gospel story. We will share it at a later time with you.
The Elders who helped us move on Friday had an interesting experience on the next day, Saturday. Due to the Assistants to the President being on some exchanges with the same missionaries in Buffalo who helped us move on Friday (exchanges means they traded companions for the day); they had planned to have lunch together at the place where Buffalo Wings (chicken wings) were first introduced in America. After finishing lunch they walked out of the restaurant and noticed a large group of guys, all were Blacks, playing three on three basketball at some outdoor basketball courts. The Elders walked over and watched them for few minutes. Several of our six missionaries who were there have played college basketball before their missions. Elder Peck asked the Black guys if they could play a game with them. The Black guys sort of teased them a bit and asked how they could play in a suit and tie; Elder Peck said just give us a chance. So the Black guys let them play, and our missionaries won each of the four games they played. While three of the missionaries were playing basketball, the other three started teaching some of the lessons to those who were watching. The missionaries taught several full lessons and some short versions of a few others. Just before the last game they played; two other white guys came over and asked the missionaries if they learned how to play basketball in the MTC. The missionaries asked how they knew about the MTC and they said we know who you are. Then during the last game Elder Peck accidentally hit one of the black players in the face and he was going to pick a fight with Elder Peck, but the white guys said to the Black guy, don’t you even think about hitting these guys, they are men of God; so that was the end of that. When the missionaries were going to leave, the Black guys invited them to come and play again with them next Saturday. It is very interesting how the Lord is able to weave the sharing of the gospel into normal every day activities.
There is much excitement and preparation beginning to take place here in our mission to get ready for the Hill Cumorah Pageant in July. Because there are not enough senior missionaries we have been asked to help with talking to people who come to the pageant while they wait for the program to begin. The pageant begins on July 8th and 9th and then also from July 12th—16th. This will be a great experience for us.
The people in the rural areas in NY are more friendly than those in the bigger cities and more trusting of each other. We were driving along a road in the rural area West of Brockport where we live and in front of a house right out by the roadside was a table with some rhubarb and asparagus on it. Maxine wanted to make a rhubarb pie so we stopped to buy some. On the table next to the rhubarb was a handwritten sign that said the rhubarb was $2.00 a bunch; then next to the rhubarb was a bottle in which you put the money for what you want to buy. No one sits at the table, so there is no labor expense; the owners operate on the principle of honesty. If you need change to pay the right amount you can go to the door and knock and you can get change. The owners do not worry about whether they get paid for everything or not. They figure most people are honest and will pay the money; if people do not pay, the owners figure the people must need the produce. The church members tell us that the owners generally make enough money doing their selling this way to make it worthwhile. Another interesting custom is that if you have anything you do not want you can put it out by the road and if anyone driving by wants it they can just stop and take it. You do not have to say anything or pay any money; it is like a free garage sale. A lot of the stuff is junk, but there are some treasures mixed in.
This morning in our mission office staff meeting, Sister Christianson shared a thought that was very impressive. She quoted Doctrine & Covenants 101:22, at the end of the verse is the phrase “…gather together and stand in holy places.” We usually think of these holy places as the temples. She then quoted from a talk Elder Richard G. Scott gave in which he said that next to the temple the most holy place is our homes with our families. The purpose of temples is to seal families together, so it makes sense that home and family should be a holy place and we should do all we can to ensure that our homes are a safe and holy place. We thought this was a great thought to think about.
This is probably plenty long for this week, so we will end. We love you and hope and pray all is well in each of your homes and families and personal lives.
Love,
Mom & Dad, Grandma & Grandpa, Maxine & Richard